和大怨
“After great resentment is resolved, some resentment always remains. How can this be made good? The sage holds the left contract and does not demand payment from others.”
和大怨，必有余怨，安可以为善？是以圣人执左契而不责于人。有德司契，无德司彻。天道无亲，常与善人。
Even after an apology, some hurt may linger. That is okay. You do not have to forget to forgive. And sometimes, the greatest peace comes from letting go without requiring an apology.
和大怨必有余怨——调和大的仇怨必然还有残余。
安可以为善——怎么能算完善呢？圣人执左契而不责于人——圣人拿着借据却不向人索要（宽容）。
有德司契无德司彻——有德者宽容如掌管契约，无德者苛刻如掌管税收。
天道无亲常与善人——天道没有偏爱，永远帮助善良的人。
Let this chapter guide your next step.
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