曲则全
Yield and overcome — the paradox of surrender
“Yield, and you remain whole. Bend, and you stay straight. Empty, and you become full. Worn out, and you are renewed. Have little, and you gain much.”
曲则全,枉则直,洼则盈,敝则新,少则得,多则惑。是以圣人抱一为天下式。不自见故明,不自是故彰,不自伐故有功,不自矜故长。夫唯不争,故天下莫能与之争。古之所谓曲则全者,岂虚言哉!诚全而归之。
The most resilient people are those who know how to bend. Flexibility is not weakness — it is how you survive the storm intact. Let go of the need to always be right.
曲则全——委屈反能保全。
抱一为天下式——持守'道'这一根本原则。
不自见故明——不自我表现反而彰显。
不自是故彰——不自以为是反而显著。
不自伐故有功——不自我夸耀反而有功。
夫唯不争故天下莫能与之争——逻辑的悖论,老子最具代表性的思想。
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